Community Guidelines

Adults only. Real people.

Every member must be 18 or older. Be honest about your age, intentions and who you are. A cosplay, avatar or character-inspired username is welcome; impersonating a real person or misleading others about your identity is not. Do not upload identifying photos or information about children.

Consent comes first

Friendship, romance, gaming and creative paths all belong here. A connection request is an invitation, not an obligation. Accept rejection without pressure. No repeated unwanted contact, sexual pressure, manipulation, threats, stalking or using another account to bypass a block.

Make room for different people

Debate a plot twist, build or unpopular opinion without attacking a person. No harassment, slurs, dehumanization or discrimination based on identity. Do not mock someone for being new to a fandom, their language ability, their body or how they express their interests. Antagonist Match explores different interests; it is not permission to antagonize someone.

Keep profiles and uploads appropriate

No explicit sexual imagery, sexual services, graphic violence, exploitation or illegal content. Never share sexual content involving minors. Keep cosplay and game screenshots suitable for an adult social community without explicit material. Use photos and artwork you have the right to share, and obtain permission from identifiable people featured in them.

Protect privacy and trust

No doxxing, publishing private conversations without permission, account theft, scams, requests for login codes, misleading fundraising, investment pitches, spam or unsolicited commercial promotion. Do not scrape the member directory, harvest images, create bot accounts or attempt to bypass access controls. Report a suspected vulnerability privately through Contact & help; do not test it on other people's data.

Share the forum thoughtfully

Use a clear discussion title and the most suitable topic. Label spoilers in the title before revealing them. Keep disagreements about ideas, and avoid duplicate posts, spam or repeated recruiting. Forum posts and replies use your public username and are shared with active signed-in members independently of your directory visibility. Moderators may hide content, lock a discussion or pin a useful topic. Reports remain private to the administrator; moderation is not continuous.

Report, block and ask for help

Use Report on a member profile or forum post for a safety concern, Block to stop contact, and Feedback for a website problem or suggestion. Screenshots sent to support should show only what is needed; crop unrelated private details. If you cannot sign in, use Contact & help. Describe what happened and provide a username or reference when relevant. Do not submit passwords, codes or identity documents.

The administrator reviews submissions and may warn, restrict, suspend or remove an account depending on the circumstances. Reports are private, but absolute anonymity cannot be guaranteed if the context identifies you or disclosure is legally required. Moderation is not monitored continuously. If there is immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

A fair chance to be heard

If you believe a moderation decision was mistaken, submit an appeal through Contact & help. Include the account username, the action and a concise explanation. The administrator can review relevant context; an appeal does not guarantee reinstatement. Good-faith reports and appeals are welcome. Intentionally false reports, retaliation and evading restrictions are not.